PENETRATION/What is sexuality?

How can you understand sex if you don't yet know the threshold of your own pleasure?

Sex is the most intense biological imperative of them all; lust and wanting another person can take over your entire body and mind. The friction of body against body can inspire a wanton ferocity in its participants. The passionate fire within us all is our personal landscape to expand upon as we wish. Keep pushing the boundaries of your own desire...

Fun with Adult Toys & Adult Toy Stores |Sex Instruction |Sex Escapades

Fun with Adult Toys

First of all, no one should be able to give you an orgasm like the one you can give yourself (and when you do find someone who can surpass it, don't let that person out of your bed!!). Seriously, every once in a while you should finger the equipment to make sure it's still working properly. The various paraphernalia below, along with the following words of review and advice, should help. And then, once you get to know how everything works, feel free to share your equipment with your special friend...

Sex Toy Playground of the Erotica Readers & Writers Association

The Xandria Collection

Offers not only an impressive selection of products, but also quite the enlightening Learn : A Selection of Topics to Inform & Enjoy section -- made up of the illustrated Sex 101, Sex Talk: Articles about sex and sexuality by Xandria's advisors, a brief yet intriguing History of Sex Toys, Toys in the Sheets: Results of Xandria's Sex Toy Survey, a Sex Toy Glossary, and best of all, Ask Xandria, a regularly-updated series of questions answered by Michael Castleman. And don't forget to click the Free Pheromones button! 

 

See The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex: The Most Complete Sex Manual Ever Written and The Good Vibrations Guide:  The G Spot, both by Cathy Winks Also see Joani Blank's Web Spot, which includes links to information on her sexuality projects, including Down There Press and Good Vibrations, and the photo-illustrated Antique Vibrator Museum

Highly recommended comes Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving by Betty Dodson, Ph.D Also see her web site at Betty Dodson Online, which includes her Joy of Masturbation column index

• Adult Toy Stores -- Toys! Toys! Toys! There's (pocket) rockets! There's (venus) butterflies! There's (ben wa) balls and (jelly) beads! There's magic wands -- some of which are vibrating with electricity (batteries not included) and others which are sculpted works of Art(hur) -- in a variety of lengths, widths, colors, twists and curves (and ability to be microwaved and/or hold water)! Get excited! Get teased! Get pleased! Get plugged and pegged, or whipped and paddled, or tied up or tied down! And don't let us forget the dolls (not just made for the guys anymore, ladies!) or the strap-on harnesses (ditto!!) for playing those *very* special games of "pretend"...

Be sure to visit GasmicGlass.com: "Offering you the finest quality and prices for hand blown Pyrex glass dildos." 
Yes, they are fully usable and insertable -- and, as they're hand-made, can even be customized to your desired size requirements! Contact Douglas Goetz for more information. Tell him Viella sent you!

Sex Instruction

So now you've got the motor running -- but do you know how to make it really purr? See some of the stories below on keeping your engine prickly hot and bubbly lubricated...

Love &Lust and Stretch Your Sexual Boundaries -- Cosmopolitan

His Moan Zones, a clickable male photo treasure map of points of arousal -- Cosmopolitan

Love & Sex -- iVillage.com

Seduction Tips/Sex Tip of the Week -- AskMen.com

NEW! Don't Spit, Swallow -- Blowjob Advice (an independent web site that I was prepared to not take seriously--!!--but which really does offer helpful information and advice on the noble act of fellatio) 

... and also take a peek back at Information: Sex Facts.

See this video, which teaches The Classic Art of Sensual Massage

Learn it all from this video, A Guide to the G Spot & Extreme Multiple Orgasms

See Nina Hartley's Guide to... DVD series, which includes Guide to Foreplay, Guide to Seduction, Guide to Private Dancing, Guide to Better Fellatio, Guide to Better Cunnilingus, Guide to Anal Sex, Guide to Oral Sex, Advanced Guide to Oral Sex, Advanced Guide to Sex Toys, and Guide to Couple's Sexploration.

Click this RSS Reader logo and get the Top Ten Sexuality Books at Powell's Bookstore.

	Extended Massive Orgasm: How You Can Give and Receive Intense Sexual Pleasure
	The Illustrated Guide to Extended Massive Orgasm
	Sweet Life: Erotic Fantasies for Couples
	Sweet Life 2: Erotic Fantasies for Couples
	The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio: How to Go Down on a Man and Give Him Mind-Blowing Pleasure
	The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus: How to Go Down on a Woman and Give Her Exquisite Pleasure
	Tricks: More Than 125 Ways to Make Good Sex Better
	Tricks 2: Another 125 Ways to Make Good Sex Better
	Orgasms for Two: The Joy of Partner Sex
	The Sex You Want: A Lovers' Guide to Women's Sexual Pleasure
	The Multi-Orgasmic Couple: Sexual Secrets Every Couple Should Know
	The infamous book by "Sex and the City" gal, Samantha (Kim Cattrall), Satisfaction: The Art of the Female Orgasm
	The Big O: Orgasms: How to Have Them, Give Them, and Keep Them Coming
	The Best Sex You'll Ever Have! 101 Exciting Positions for Ecstatic Sexual Fulfillment

 

 

 

	Start the smiles for the evening with an anecdote from Skin Flutes and Velvet Gloves: A Collection of Facts and Fancies, Legends and Oddities About the Body's Private Parts by Terri Hamilton
	The entertaining, illustrated, and informative Guide to Getting It On! See the web site accompaniment for this book at the web site of its publisher, Goofy Foot Press
	Lou Paget's books come highly recommended, both How to Be a Great Lover: Girlfriend-To-Girlfriend Totally Explicit Techniques That Will Blow His Mind and How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure: Totally Explicit Techniques Every Woman Wants Her Man to Know
	Check out The Good Girl's Guide to Bad Girl Sex
	Also check out Drive Him Wild: A Hands-On Guide to Pleasing Your Man in Bed
	This book seems pretty popular as well, Secrets of Sensual Lovemaking: The Ultimate in Female Ecstasy
	This seems to be the book to get for pleasuring all night long, The Multi-Orgasmic Man: Sexual Secrets Every Man Should Know
	And there's also How to Make Love All Night (And Drive a Woman Wild: Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking)
	This book seems to be the most helpful in this area, Oral Caress: The Loving Guide to Exciting a Woman: A Comprehensive Illustrated Manual on the Joyful Art of Cunnilingus
	Raves abound for this book, Anal Pleasure & Health: A Guide for Men and Women
	More raves for A Hand in the Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting

See these books by authors Anne Hooper and Laura Corn:

See more sexuality books at

Sex Escapades

So maybe you don't know what you want to do -- or you don't know what you want to do first! Explore these guides through the sexual jungle...

Finally released and causing a BIG stir is adult star Jenna Jameson's book, 
How to Make Love Like a Porn Star

And the book that came before all of these and just about started it all!:

(Before there was Sex and the City, there was...) Sex and the Single Girl by Helen Gurley Brown   Read more about the book's re-release in Caitlin Macy's July 25 Village Voice article, "Gurley Talk"

Sex and the Single Girl (VHS only) A movie was "adapted" from the book, which starred the lovely Natalie Wood and an oh-so-naughty Tony Curtis. Oddly, the film mocks Brown's book and her conclusions, but, putting that aside, it's hilarious! There's a surprisingly top-notch supporting cast, most playing characters far removed from the kinds of personalities they were usually known for portraying onscreen -- to incredibly humorous effect! There's Henry Fonda, Lauren Bacall, Edward Everett Horton, and Mel Ferrer, plus an appearance by the legendary Count Basie, and the va-va-voom! sexuality and singing of Fran Jeffries alongside the wide-eyed innocent sexiness of Leslie Parrish. Don't miss the highway chase at the end (bring your own pretzels!) featuring Stubby Kaye and a sidesplitting bravura over-the-top performance from Larry Storch!